Advice for mate with cheating girlfreind?

sich nich

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has happened to me in previous relationship. we were only young, but we were together for ages and were pretty much married. she cheated on me and i cheated on her on separate occasions. basically, we talked about it and got all emotional, we were both very sorry for our mistakes that weren't worth anything, and we got over it. no one can completely get over this sort of thing, ull always remember the pain and shit, but forgiveness is a big part, if u don't have that, or they don't mean much to u in the first place then its better not to drag things on and kid ur self any longer. if they are really close, then they should talk. like u no skid marks said, they were in a rough patch and maybe she was super pissed off and didn't care for the consequences of her fun, but now that things got better again, she could be genuinely sorry for her mistake and want to make it right again. if the guy really loves her he will listen. if she really loves him she will try hard to win him over again. its up to them. it worked for me for a while.

oh and some one said that this is not jerry springer, its a mountain bike forum. tru, but it is in the off topic part. metallica and set top boxes aren't exactly mountain bike related either
 

Inverted

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People fuck up thats human nature for you. In my experience women only stray when they cant orgasm during sex, maybe he could try some kinky shit.
 

Rat Bird

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ok, i've only read the first page but its pretty simple(well not easy simple but u no) anyway the first few, LTR, danv, Toxic, W2ttsy etc. had it right.

Basically if shes worth it and they really are good for eachother, your mate needs to try and find out reason why she did it. He need's to find forgiveness in himself and in her and remember that its not okay what happened, but shes worth more than the anger and hate that would be left in him if he didnt learn to forgive her. As soon as he realises how important she is to him,they can both work through this and it will eventually make there relationship stronger. I hope he makes the right decision 8)

P.S the reason of the whole "love hate anger" thing is from spending an hour in front of the tv today watching Dr Phil..its amazing what people get up to in the school hols..... :shock: :?

P.P.S mate, your the one i feel sorry for, having to some how get this advice to him without sounding like you changed your sexuality :? :) :wink:
 

Rat Bird

Cannon Fodder
G/f's come and go, they are kinda like mountain bikes, when they start playing up on you, costing you too much, becoming a big hassle, start looking really raggy, then it's time for a brand new shiny girlfriend.


-Sean[/quote]

sean, dont be a dickhead. Never compare girls and bikes in a dumb analagy like that. Don't get me wrong, it's fine to an extent but have u ever considered maybe this relaionship could be serious? its not like a one night stand that he's stuck with for a few months - they're suppose to be in love. Imean sure she stuffed up, but if it wasnt anything real he wouldnt have gone to his mate for advice - she's already be at the next nightclub sorting her way through guys. Think of what you write next time.
 

thewayitis

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mmmmm

break-ups are hell messy though.... like i broke up with a girl 2 months ago and only today have i got all my shit from her house (thankgod for her brother he loves me) it just pisses you off when you think you know them well enough and then they burn you. the dude is pretty much going to want to be with her no matter what... its just the way it is but going through his mind the whole time is that issue of trust. my ex used to hit me all the time and i would just sit there and do nothing about it. i used get bruses and shit and i put up with it. that sort of shit IS NOT ON. but neither is cheating. i think there is away you can have her and make her feel bad for what shes done at the same time. my ex now tries to make my life hell for not wanting to be with her after she cheated on me with 5 different guys in one night. it wasnt my fault i was in queensland for a high performance surfing camp the night of her deb was it?
 

naz

Criminally Inane
oh i got it, once on jerry springer, this guy(18 ) had to tell his gf(16) something, he had fucked this girls grandma(atleast 70) and after dropping that bombshell, told his gf he fucked her mum 2 a week later.
ahah then he asked the girl to forgive him, 'he was drunk'

there u go tell ur mate to fuck his gfs mum and grandma, she'll never cheat on him again :wink:
 

Mahoney_007

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naz said:
there u go tell ur mate to fuck his gfs mum and grandma, she'll never cheat on him again :wink:
BINGO go sleep with her mum her sister and her best friend then dump her.

Cheating sluts arn't worth your time or your spunk, treat them how they deserve to be treated like TRASH!!

Love sucks :evil:
 

No Skid Marks

Blue Mountain Bikes Brooklyn/Lahar/Kowa/PO1NT Raci
He is still with her. It's eating him alive. Real ugly to watch. He has lost all his drive and pride and it's like he's in a coma half the time. I wish I'd taken him out and found him a slut when I could have. She won't give up the dudes details so we can adjust his face. I thought this was the wrong thing to do at first but now after watching my mate go ga ga I to want to smash this fucker. I know we would all probably steel a fine chick of a stranger if we could but you would be prepared for the consequences wouldn't you. It's fair to smash this fucker isn't it? And can I join in on the smashing or is that outta line. I've known this guy my whole life nearly and we've been through alotta shit.
 

W2ttsy

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smashings are good. just make sure it doesnt lead back to you. i find telephone books are the best, cos they dont leave marks.

either that, or you could kidnap the shit out of him and scare him so he shits his pants. just throw him in a sack, and then in your boot and drive around for a while, then dump the sack near a porno area (ala kings cross) and let the hookers have their fun for the night.

if you want details, just go ask a couple of her friends she was with the night it happened.

if you want to trip the g.f up and make her pissed off, you could go to target and buy a lacy bra and just drop it casually in his bedroom somewhere, then drop some pornos on the coffee table, some beer cans on the floor and tell her you had a small "party" last night (assuming she wasnt at the house the night before) and that you werent sure what your mate got upto. let the "evidence" finish the story. it will fuck her up hard.

as for your friend, i suggest a heavy dose of mountain bike vids, some beer and a ride or dozen. that will get him out of his depressed state. either that or drag his ass to the local metric college (year 11 and 12) at the end of the day and let him have a solid purve on the girls.
or you could invite some "slutty" friend over and then leave and let her bring him out of his state.

meh, i hope hes feeling better soon.

W2ttsy
 

Gutty

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If they do it once, they'll do it again.

She obviously don't love him like he does her. best to just move on IMO.
 
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