Well, of your 10 or so posts, there was one to say you were a 36 year old noob, one to say that you like metal, one to say that you don't like druggies and thieves, the one with your dad being in a wheelchair and two that said you liked your bike. Useful bike related posts wise there was one about Ti springs being fatter and heavier as they went up in poundage.
So, you haven't been here a hell of a long time, post wise you haven't added much useful and it may be that your trading access application was rejected on that basis.
There's a trading access system for a reason, so that it can be established that people are legitimate and not just throwing a few posts up to enable them to open an account and rip people off.
Hell, you started complaining well before the usual 7 day waiting period was expired.
Lurk a bit, read a bit, post a bit where you have experience and insight to offer and chill out. It'll come in time. You're 36, the mods do this stuff part time, not as a day job, by now in life you'd appreciate that not everything in the world happens pronto, especially when it's being done on a volunteer basis. Biggest fubar you can make if you want access is to throw a tantrum about it, then you'll just piss people off.