Thanks for all the recommendations so far. I looked through all the recommendations in this thread and compared them to the benchmark set by the commencal meta am 29 essential which is my top pick for $4299 + $99 shipping.
Commencal stats: 160/170mm R/F Travel.
XL sizing: reach 480mm, stack 638mm, HTA 65.5, STA 76.5
Has very decent spec for its price.
Last - Too expensive, STA too slack.
Alutech - too expensive
Lemonade by lost bikes - too expensive, not available. Hella interesting geomtery tho, 79 degree seat angle, nice.
Foes - not progressive, frame only.
rose - makes carbon bikes
musing - makes carbon bikes
empire - XL is only 460mm reach, STA too slack 73. Too expensive, not progressive enough.
Craftworks - Reach on L is only 445, build spec worse than commencal for more money.
Liteville - Too expensive, Seat tube able a little slack at 74 on the 601
Banshee - I love Banshee, my first bike was a Banshee. But the commencal just beats em on price and has a much steeper STA.
The bike that comes the closest is Bird's AM9 - Reach 475 (in a medium!! 500 in the L), Stack 623, HTA 65, STA 75.5.
Price is comparable, but once you customize a similar build with a dropper post and GST its more speno. Travel is 150/150 so a lil less than the commencal.
I think the commencal meta 29 is still firmly at the top of my list.