Alex, dude, I know where you're at. It's not an issue of not wanting to have sex, but it sucks when you start to feel like that's the only thing you're together for. You can't tell her that you don't want to hang out at home because you want to do more than have sex - all she'll hear is "I don't want to have sex with you anymore" and then it's all over. You should try pushing for dinner out or a movie or something like that - you can still go back to one or other of your places afterward, but it gives you a chance to spend some nice time together just hanging out. The other thing I'd suggest is try to organise a bit of a day out - just the two of you. Catch the bus/train to the beach, have a swim, relax, have some fish and chips in the park by the water, catch the train home and then you can do what you want. Don't try to cut the sex out altogether - you'll hate yourself and she'll have you too - but just push for some time spent elsewhere.
I know how you're feeling, dude. My last girlfriend always just wanted to hang out at her place, which inevitably just meant lying around in her room (a dimly lit, boring box) doing nothing, having sex, going to sleep. Good fun on occasion but not as the norm.
Ahh thankyou! I shall plan something for Saturday, would spending time with each other and friends be a good idea? Our friends get alone really well together, and it would be good just to hang out with everyone, as well as time alone with her? Dinner might be a good idea too for Saturday night,
thanks!