I had the exact same problem with some Elixers recently. Be really careful if you try to let some fluid out - I did that and let too much out which meant the brakes needed a bleed, which sucks if you don't have a bleed kit. Like you I took a little bit and it made no difference so I stupidly kept going... I think the best way to do it is to put the pads in and use a wedge to force them apart. The trick to this, which I did not know at the time, is that the pistons do no retract instantly. You have to leave the wedge in there for a few minutes.