Well folks,
News around my house is that Mrs Mofo is expecting our first Bub in early August.
Although I feel that I'm fully prepared to give up the majority of my non working time to spend quality time with the family, I just wondered how you guys faired with "lads time " out riding with having a new born in the house? I currently ride at least once a week, sometimes more.
I really don't want to lose the once a week ride and by all accounts Mrs Mofo is keen for me not to miss out on it either (she pretty good like that).
You guys got any advice or stories?
Johnny.
Congrats to you both Johnny, fantastic news, hope the pregnancy progresses smoothly.
I'd agree with the other folks, parenthood definitely impacts on your riding time (and pretty much every other aspect of your life). My wife had our boys (twins) in June 2005 and whilst I managed a few gym sessions each week whenever I could sneak them in I was lucky to ride once a fortnight for the first few months. Once you get into a routine you'll be able to work it in but most likely not at the same times that you're used to. Mornings, nights, after lunch on the weekend, whenever it can be done. On another note, be prepared for Mrs Mofo's perspective to change a little; I don't say that as an inflammatory comment but being a new mum is a tough and tiring gig, both physically and mentally so she may in times of stress be less inclined to encourage you to head out on the bike. Happy to be proven wrong there though!
As others have highlighted, the best skillset a parent can develop is that of time management and consistency. To a large extent your routine will be governed by bub however they can also adapt to yours, you just need to be consistent.
There are lots of dads on here, don;t be afraid to ask for help.
All the best mate!
Our little guy just got out of the NICU yesterday after being born on 420.
Congrats Arete hope he's fit, well and healthy.
