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Having just had a baby a couple of months ago I now understand what parenthood is all about - amazing love and constant fear. One of lifes true tragedies is to outlive your children.
I think of what I used to do (let alone what my partner did) as a teenager and already it gives me heart palpatations - because I gave birth to a boy. Males, especially those between 15-24, die from all sorts of silly stuff. My boy will probably do some stupid stuff too.
Give your parents, especially your Mum some time to get over the fear she had to face from going to hospital to pick you up. She is already having to deal with giving up 'ownership' of you as you become your own independant adult self. Deep down she doesn't trust that you can look after yourself enough to survive your early adult years - she's crossing her fingers, hoping you do, becuase there is not a lot she can do about it. Banning DH is a knee-jerk reaction to some strong fear.
If you like your Mum and value your relationship with her, but want to become independant at the same time, you are going to have to figure out how to give her a bit of psycological 'control' over the situation. You need to say something like "I'm going to go DHing, but how about we do X, Y or Z to reduce the (perceived) risks?" You need to deal with and address the risks your parents think there are to DHing
Good luck
I think of what I used to do (let alone what my partner did) as a teenager and already it gives me heart palpatations - because I gave birth to a boy. Males, especially those between 15-24, die from all sorts of silly stuff. My boy will probably do some stupid stuff too.
Give your parents, especially your Mum some time to get over the fear she had to face from going to hospital to pick you up. She is already having to deal with giving up 'ownership' of you as you become your own independant adult self. Deep down she doesn't trust that you can look after yourself enough to survive your early adult years - she's crossing her fingers, hoping you do, becuase there is not a lot she can do about it. Banning DH is a knee-jerk reaction to some strong fear.
If you like your Mum and value your relationship with her, but want to become independant at the same time, you are going to have to figure out how to give her a bit of psycological 'control' over the situation. You need to say something like "I'm going to go DHing, but how about we do X, Y or Z to reduce the (perceived) risks?" You need to deal with and address the risks your parents think there are to DHing
Good luck