Everytime I ride Beach road, I think 'why the hell did I do this?'
So many of the weekend roadies seem to think we are all in some big invisible race, and that if they smile, or say ANYTHING or look in your direction that they are being weak, and it will subract from their level of cool.
My age group is the worst.... the 35 to 50's
I might stand out by wearing cheap-arse'd NON-team, non-co-ordinated lycra, and having hairy legs. But this is on purpose. The belly is not on purpose.
Ride mid-week, past Mordialloc by yourself, and other roadies by themselves will acknowledge you and be friendly. But that's the exception.
How many times have I passed some muscle guy by himself, riding 5 k's faster, only to find 10 minutes later he has been drafting me and will triumphantly pass me again (looking staright ahead, trying to look relaxed and controlling his breathing) without my changing pace and without so much as a nod!
But if you do finally crack a conversation with some roadie as often as not they are incredibly dull and often just dumb. Mediocre guys that are hero's (to themselves) when they are on the bike.
And whenever I am blatantly faster than some other road guy, and try to have a bit of a chat on the way past, I will hear a story about how it's his first ride in two months, or how he is recovering from some injury blah blah blah.... WHO CARES why you are slower!!!
But ya cross country, and everyone is up for a chat. I have ridden with endurance race winners more than happy to slow down to my pace and enjoy some company. MTBers will talk about YOUR bike, whereas roadies will talk all about their own!
Roadies, just have fun!