Yep, been there, sitting on a cliff patting the big black bastard hoping he'd push me off..... For 5 nights in a row.... Still don't understand how I'm still here.
Have battled with it for almost a decade now with only realising in the last few years that I have been. Crux for me was breaking down into a sobbing mess that couldn't move, talk, or do anything at work in front of everyone during a toolbox meeting.
I have my moments, apparently happy, intelligent, randomness that exudes joy in others when I'm 'on'
Deeply dark, hollow, paralysing, when I'm down. Just getting out of bed can be too much of an effort.
This has affected my working life in constant job changes, poor attendance, mood swings.
Nothing really seems to help, I can be good for years then bam, the bastard dog brings back the stick and the game continues.
People 'expect results' so you stop telling them what's going on, you smile, using every last bit of strength not to break out and crumble around them.
After I broke down I had a chat with my boss, seemed understanding, seemed caring, told me about his sister suffering so he' knew' what it was like..... Fucking arsehat!!!
Meds screwed my head, so foggy, dazed, no idea what was going on, couldn't drive (required for my job) and touching electricity was scary. Had to stop them....
2 weeks later, having a chat with a co-worker (fuggin awesome bloke, was my rock at work) boss comes over, says it's good to see I look happier and glad I got over it. Are you fucking kidding me?!?! My mood dropped and I felt so sorry for his sister immediately knowing this prick is probably whitewashing her too. Safe to say I didn't hang around there too much longer....
I'm struggling at the moment, finding excuses to hide away, not really wanting to be around people, not really knowing what I want to do, where I want to be, so am kinda on autopilot just going through the daily motions. Doing what's expected and longing to be at home, left alone, just me and my real life black dog.... This one
He's my rock atm, just me and him against it all. He's why I get up, get going every day, if I don't noone else will and I can't do that to him, he's to awesome an animal to mistreat like that.
My best mate I talk to but not fully, he knows when things are shit, doesn't know 'everything' but I'm glad he's there. As mentioned in above posts, I do better when we get time for beers after work, when we don't get the chance for a week or 2 it makes a difference.
My GF has her own issues, big issues, and I don't feel right putting this on her so she knows bugger all.
Fark, could ramble on here all day so better stop or I'll start going in circles.
I'll end with this, riding helps, exercise helps, friends help, family helps.... But doesn't cure, for me I don't think there is a cure, more of a continuous journey and fight, but one I'm getting better prepared for.