rextheute
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My input is not much , but a couple of short sharp sticks in the eye remind you that
‘ Everyman needs a shed or some time to themselves ‘
its not selfish , it is required even if just to decompress and stare into space
( my dad and mum are older and recently lost their doggo- dad says yeah , I really miss talking to him every day when we went for walk )
Dog person or not - it’s good to verbalise some things .
( obviously not I’m gonna murder that fkn neighbour hahahah )
Life is short , you don’t get a second go around , I understand and appreciate that dollars are needed to get on .
But the one thing you can give back to your family is time ‘ be present’ whatever it takes - if you have told your partner ‘ back home by 4 , be there at 4 .
I have only recently understood the value of this as I would happily go out on my bike for a day - which came to head as my offsider said , just tell me when you will be back ‘
in my mind it wasn’t an issue - but to others it was - communicate even if it’s an uncomfortable convo.
Sometimes to be scared and upset is good , it helps to focus you on what exactly is required to move thru that fear , irrational / perceived , doesn’t matter .
Accept help if offered , most friends won’t always offer it up ,but if they do it by all means accept , pay it forward .
Be afraid , embrace it , tell ya wife I love you , hug your kids / chat to the dog
‘ Everyman needs a shed or some time to themselves ‘
its not selfish , it is required even if just to decompress and stare into space
( my dad and mum are older and recently lost their doggo- dad says yeah , I really miss talking to him every day when we went for walk )
Dog person or not - it’s good to verbalise some things .
( obviously not I’m gonna murder that fkn neighbour hahahah )
Life is short , you don’t get a second go around , I understand and appreciate that dollars are needed to get on .
But the one thing you can give back to your family is time ‘ be present’ whatever it takes - if you have told your partner ‘ back home by 4 , be there at 4 .
I have only recently understood the value of this as I would happily go out on my bike for a day - which came to head as my offsider said , just tell me when you will be back ‘
in my mind it wasn’t an issue - but to others it was - communicate even if it’s an uncomfortable convo.
Sometimes to be scared and upset is good , it helps to focus you on what exactly is required to move thru that fear , irrational / perceived , doesn’t matter .
Accept help if offered , most friends won’t always offer it up ,but if they do it by all means accept , pay it forward .
Be afraid , embrace it , tell ya wife I love you , hug your kids / chat to the dog