I've ridden a few different bikes recently. And I don't think its 2 or 4 stroke that is really the critical factor, but how the bike is set up.
Both 2 and 4 strokes can be set up with a broad spread of power or a narrow band. My Gas Gas trials bike could take off from a stop in 6th gear without too much clutch slipping, because its tuned for torque.
As far as more conventional enduro or trail bikes are concerned, I think for a small person a two stroke is much better just because it it far lighter. My WR125 weighs 99kg, a WR250 is up about 118kg AFAIK, that is a big difference when you are staring to get tired after a long ride in the hills. The inertia of those extra cams makes a difference in the tight too I've been told.
Next thing, is a 2 stroke is so much easier to work on. Top end rebuild is no dramas for me, don't know that I'd do a 4 stroke top end in the shed though.
I think that the better power to weight, and the simplicity of a 2 stroke is better.