Back from my appointment, with pretty much the same position as before.
I did couple more X ray, saw a couple of guys, and they don't want to take position for surgery or not...
One guy said, yeah we may have to consider surgery, how to you feel about that? pretty good actually.
the other one, oh yeah but you can die from an operation, and there is no guaranty the op will be successful.
So they want to chat with the boss and a shoulder specialist and call me back tomorrow.
Now I'm lost completely, and don't know what to do at all.
I know the risk from the op, but it sound's like they are too busy for me and try to scare me up.
Anyways, if you guys have any comments, they are more than welcome.
Cheers.
Well, from my experience working with surgeons, they always have time / will make time if the surgery is clearly needed.
The conundrum is in your case it sounds like your right in the middle, with it currently unclear if you need the surgery or will heal successfully without it. From my limited view on the matter it seems a good thing you have two surgeons consulting with the head of ortho, you going to get a answer from their combined experience and expertise.
Nothing unusual about asking about your views about having the OP, they always ask for the patients view on elective surgery, as some people really do or don't want to go through with it and it gives you the patient 'control' over the situation so to speak.
I would ask the surgeon/specialist if I was you if it hasn't been mentioned yet, if waiting to have the surgery (and see how it heals conservatively) will have any negative impact over having it ASAP. ultimately, it's your shoulder and your choice to have the OP, the surgeons are probably just trying to work out the best and safest outcome for you and give you enough info to make an informed decision.
I personally will never have surgery if it's not absolutely needed due to the risks of death, complications, infections... especially on a shoulder, seen to many that weren't ever going to get close to 100% (not that that may be a realistic goal in your case). It's definitely a stressful time, with the uncertainty hanging over you.
Just my ramblings while I wait for the lab to 'boot' up.