Been considering a similar dilemma for a while now myself. We have two cars at the moment (2005 Focus and 2003 Mitsubishi Challenger) and the plan is to drop down to a single car and save a bit, as we currently have no need for two.
The idea is to meet somewhere in the middle of the two cars we have now and get a smaller SUV. The budget from selling our current vehicles will be in the order of $15k, so have been considering all the usual suspects in this class (Outlander, CRV, Forester, X-Trail, Grand Vitara, etc....) and when compared alongside our own list of wants, it has pretty much boiled down to two:
T31 X-Trail and Renault Koleos
Coincidentally, I understand that these two cars share a platform and mechanicals. The X-Trail is well-regarded in this thread, but does anyone have an opinion/feedback on the Renault? My wife does lean towards that one a little more, as the Nissan is a bit 'boxy' for her liking. (To be fair, she will be driving it 95% of the time.)
For the record, the chances of ever heading off-road are pretty minute, I don't think I have even engaged 4WD in the five years I have owned the Challenger and I don't see that changing too much (unfortunately!).
(Sorry for thread hijack, hopefully it's still relevant!)