Fair enough. Hadn’t thought about it from that perspective. Point taken.That "girl needs to eat" stuff is the sort of shit my missus finds offensive. She's naturally very skinny, eats a lot (both good and bad foods) but can't put on weight. She works reception so gets comments like that often, usually from fat people. If you said something like "guy needs to eat less" to a fat guy you're an arsehole but for some reason you can say the opposite to a skinny person and it's fine.