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Stop caring, be a bigger douchebag.How do i get this chick to like me?
met her about a month ago at a party/gathering, didnt really talk to her, spent my night with this other girl.
Saw her last friday at another party (shes apart of our group of friends) when it was her birthday. i usually buy drinks for underage mates, but i shouted her vodka because it was her bday. got her number.
Saw her the night after when my mate had about 10 mates over and i talked to her a bit just general chit chat/convo. texted her a bit the day after.
problem is she likes this other guy (typical nice girl likes the jerk situation, not that he's a jerk, but she could do a lot better than this guy and hes acting like a bit of a douchebag to her).
what could be my next 'move' this weekend when i will see her again? or what could i say/do?
and then i realised the sig was written about YOU. perfectStop caring, be a bigger douchebag.
Captain Obvious says that you've been 'friendzoned' in this case. Read a few pages back you I think you'll find a post by S. that will help you in your situation.How do i get this chick to like me?
met her about a month ago at a party/gathering, didnt really talk to her, spent my night with this other girl.
Saw her last friday at another party (shes apart of our group of friends) when it was her birthday. i usually buy drinks for underage mates, but i shouted her vodka because it was her bday. got her number.
Saw her the night after when my mate had about 10 mates over and i talked to her a bit just general chit chat/convo. texted her a bit the day after.
problem is she likes this other guy (typical nice girl likes the jerk situation, not that he's a jerk, but she could do a lot better than this guy and hes acting like a bit of a douchebag to her).
what could be my next 'move' this weekend when i will see her again? or what could i say/do?
Haha friendzoned?! Ive talked to her like twice. I havent made any moves on her so i would be considered a friend, but not friendzoned, there is a difference.Captain Obvious says that you've been 'friendzoned' in this case. Read a few pages back you I think you'll find a post by S. that will help you in your situation.
make a move or you will be friendzonedHaha friendzoned?! Ive talked to her like twice. I havent made any moves on her so i would be considered a friend, but not friendzoned, there is a difference.
Stop caring, be a bigger douchebag.
i read that, then i read the signature above it. laughs were had
and then i realised the sig was written about YOU. perfect
Get her more drunk?How would i go about turning a friend into a friend with benefits. Pretty sure she thinks im hot and we will both touch eachother when were both slightly intoxicated at partys im talking above the waist tho. She has let me grab her boobs a number of times. theres no way id want to date her and she wouldnt date me. Im thinking i will just have to attempt to make out with her and see what she does. I know a logical covosation about how we should be friends with benifits wouldnt work because well shes a girl and they dont know what logic is.
Anyone sucseeded in this kinda thing before, tips on what to do?
You need to move on. If she is telling you about some other guy you're toast. The minute after you make your move, the other guy will and you'll be flicked aside. It will only end in you getting hurt.How do i get this chick to like me?
met her about a month ago at a party/gathering, didnt really talk to her, spent my night with this other girl.
Saw her last friday at another party (shes apart of our group of friends) when it was her birthday. i usually buy drinks for underage mates, but i shouted her vodka because it was her bday. got her number.
Saw her the night after when my mate had about 10 mates over and i talked to her a bit just general chit chat/convo. texted her a bit the day after.
problem is she likes this other guy (typical nice girl likes the jerk situation, not that he's a jerk, but she could do a lot better than this guy and hes acting like a bit of a douchebag to her).
what could be my next 'move' this weekend when i will see her again? or what could i say/do?
When things kick off, a simple "let's go" should sort it. She needs you to make the move. As for the fwb's work that out later.How would i go about turning a friend into a friend with benefits. Pretty sure she thinks im hot and we will both touch eachother when were both slightly intoxicated at partys im talking above the waist tho. She has let me grab her boobs a number of times. theres no way id want to date her and she wouldnt date me. Im thinking i will just have to attempt to make out with her and see what she does. I know a logical covosation about how we should be friends with benifits wouldnt work because well shes a girl and they dont know what logic is.
Anyone sucseeded in this kinda thing before, tips on what to do?
Just ask her. Tactfully. This has worked several times for me. Make it light hearted but not so much that she thinks it's just a joke. You'll be surprised...How would i go about turning a friend into a friend with benefits. Pretty sure she thinks im hot and we will both touch eachother when were both slightly intoxicated at partys im talking above the waist tho. She has let me grab her boobs a number of times. theres no way id want to date her and she wouldnt date me. Im thinking i will just have to attempt to make out with her and see what she does. I know a logical covosation about how we should be friends with benifits wouldnt work because well shes a girl and they dont know what logic is.
Anyone sucseeded in this kinda thing before, tips on what to do?
Well if she's getting handsy I wouldn't bother talking to her about it, I'd just see how far she's willing to go.. Be careful though, that sort of thing can end a friendship at the end of the day, and one of you will usually end up having feelings for the other. Tread carefullyCheers for the response guys, thats kinda what i was thinking. So your saying dont even go as far as a make out? Just as soon as she gets handsy ask her light heatedly.
IMO, bad plan. I watched a friend try this one on a good friend of all of ours. We all thought he could have pulled it off getting the friends with benefits thing, but he handled the situation so badly that he got shot into flames. From then on, it was impossible to be in a room with them the tension was so high. Go for it, but tread very lightly.Just ask her. Tactfully. This has worked several times for me. Make it light hearted but not so much that she thinks it's just a joke. You'll be surprised...
You need to be one of these things:Cheers for the response guys, thats kinda what i was thinking. So your saying dont even go as far as a make out? Just as soon as she gets handsy ask her light heatedly.