mtb1611
Seymour
The fact he didn't pull his weight has nothing to do with his occupation; sounds like he was a tool, and would've been regardless of the field in which he worked (or didn't work). As an aside, kudos for the immense amount of work you obviously put in to raise your kids and continue your education.I'll vouch for that. I was married to a teacher for 17 years. A music teacher, who exclusively taught years 11 and 12.
Never saw him bring work home, most days he had half a day off with no scheduled classes, and 12 weeks paid holiday a year. In 17 years he never helped with the housework or cutting firewood, and expected praise heaped on him if he thought to wheel the bins out. I raised four kids, including his kid from his former marriage, with zero practical help whilst planting an orchard, herb and veggie garden, rainforest shade and working part time in a garden centre. Last four years I was also studying three Diplomas.
Too many reasons to list why a teacher makes the "ex" list.
I raised my teenagers alone with him sniping and sooking, thirteen years later he's still the gift that keeps on giving but at least my kids see him for the arse he is.
Teaching's an occupation like any other and as such there's a great divergence in the quality of practitioners, but to tar all teachers with the same brush and assume that because one is shit they all must be, is plain silly and somewhat ignorant. Biggest problem with bad teachers is that that it's absurdly impossible to get rid of them - they're a protected species and unless they're stealing money or engaged in sexual misconduct with children, attempting to get rid of one is virtually pointless. The NSW department has a conduct unit but their powers are so limited it's bordering on farcical. Several years ago the notion was raised of enabling principals to hire and fire, authority we don;t currently have. Of course the Teachers Federation launched into outrage mode and it was canned. One of the self-appointed mouthpieces of the masses at the school I was at asked me if I'd like that authority; I said "Yep, 'cos I'd only have to do it once".
LTIH: systemic machinations that protect fucked employees.