what do you mean by the answers?Spend a couple of hundred on a shrink. Get the answers out of your head. They are in there.
Is she willing to take you back?
Learn how to split up a sentence? That gave me a headache...well fuck, now what, was going of with what seems a pretty prefect woman to me, drives a lifted gq patrol, is a tradie, a very good 4wder, as beautiful as, well off, a good cook, good in bed, think i've made my point, anyway were together for 6 months or so and the day after my birthday she come round says its not working, so questions is, how am i going to get her back? if i can at all
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I would just like to point out that it is not necessarily your fault that she left. She may have left for a number of reasons e.g. Met someone else, family trouble, stress from work, etc. Do not blame yourself for her leaving you, that is a massive massive mistake that will fuck you up mentally. Maybe you were doing something that annoyed her but how are you supposed to know that if she never told you? If there was some ongoing problem that she had then she should have talked to you about it (COMMUNICATION!), and it is unfair for her to simply break up with you without even attempting to talk about the issue first.So find out what you did to turn her.
She will think you're a deadset champion because you worked out that you were a dunderhead all by yourself.
Now use this time to change. She will be hoping for that.
yes yes, all in good funWell hey, we got full stops- PROGRESS! Actually, makes me see that you are pretty quick to change when things are pointed out to you- a good point for your prospects. Your plan sounds good, try not to be too dramatic, she sounds like the kind of girl to back away from that; but taking her out of the crowd is a great idea.
Keep us posted
I think it's pretty clear. If she had any thoughts that maybe it could work she would want to try.yeh not happening
yeh, she's unfortunatly basing it all on the i've been there before agument which i great but no me, considering her ex really was a proper douche, all well, let if go for now and see if in time she feels for me againI think it's pretty clear. If she had any thoughts that maybe it could work she would want to try.
dont worry mate i'd agree fully! i'm not a sugar coated sort of person, it is what it is, as i said, i'd like her back and i've tried with no success so its done, moved on, none of you will believe it but i am a very mentally evolved person, i can decide exactly whats i want and thats that, emotions dont come into it that much. like i said i'vr moved on, thats that no more obssessing, i'm not going to lie the thoughs gonna cross my mind a few time when things remind me over her but it will only be a passing glance of hmm bummer, ahh well shit happenes, and thats how it is so yeh, moved on nowI don't know if you read anything I wrote on the last page but why are you changing yourself for her? A relationship is where your partner accepts and loves you for who you are, not who you could potentially be.
To be blunt you're going to spend all this time sucking up to her, changing who you are, trying to show her you're a different person and losing your mind over this girl when in reality you have done nothing wrong and she is just no longer interested.
If she was genuinely interested in prolonging her relationship with you she would have talked to you about it and tried to fix it. I'm sorry if this comes across as being rude, admittedly I'm not trying to sugar coat it, I'm just trying to save you wasting your time and energy on this girl who has just moved on. The sooner you can accept it and move on the better off you will be.
This is my advice based on previous experiences of a very similar situation.
Best of luck to you.
Fuckkk, I know that feel bro. Stay strong mate. Gotta kick those asshole thoughts out - It's definetly not easy...saw her at the 4wd club meeting tonight, fuck me it funny how your mind work, totally fine with out her, all good to talk about going and getting your shi with her but when you see her in a public place with another bloke, ffaarrkk.... just starts it ticking over again in your head!
i know mate, i think a good shag with another lady might help that along!Fuckkk, I know that feel bro. Stay strong mate. Gotta kick those asshole thoughts out - It's definetly not easy...
Here's my tip...just avoid her! If you know she is going to be somewhere just make sure you're not there! It might seem shit at the start, you mightn't do what you want to do, see what you want to see etc. but it will help you get over it! Out of sight out of mind!saw her at the 4wd club meeting tonight, fuck me it funny how your mind work, totally fine with out her, all good to talk about going and getting your shi with her but when you see her in a public place with another bloke, ffaarrkk.... just starts it ticking over again in your head!