there's also the pig farm option, or the septic tank...
DD unfortunately has an eight week old son to this chunt. no job, expects her to drive him everywhere, chucked a right spaz in front of me the other morning during our lunch at a cafe that i sprung for, this morning (and this is average for whilst i've been here visiting) DD made pancakes for his 4yro whilst i held baby and walked the floor, then cleaned the kitchen one-handed whilst still holding baby, and then made DD a protein smoothie because she hadn't had breakfast yet and baby is fully breastfed, whilst still holding baby....
whilst useless BF sat on the couch playing games on his phone ignoring the 4yro.
pig farm, long drop or septic tank? hmmm, decisions, decisions....